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Makes the game to simulate the dangerous scene

As soon as the American North Carolina Government's Educational department once specially manufactured for the child edited the subject for not to open the door! Feature: Male staff, the disguise becomes the deliveryman, is bringing the big pile of gift and the multi-colored balloon, is not at to some parents the home, the child defends the vacant room the family to visit alone (obtained guardian's agreement beforehand).
The result showed that half of child good behavior: To deliveryman's in every possible way enticement, either does not give pays attention to, either is away from the gate reply. But, and some half of children, let the parents worry: Not only they let a wolf into the fold, but also by the young leading character's posture, leads deliveryman uncle one by one room visit.
After this program, the police manufactured one have originally been possible to let the child tintage ' alone in the home safety picture album '. In the tintage process, the child may understand a series of alone when home deals with the artificial injury the method. Lets a wolf into the fold the children are also carried on by the guardian the safe education.
This issue of program utilization is the situation simulation game.
How when refers to let the child guards against mishap the artificial injury in not however, child psychology educational expert Huang family is good and Meng moved the capital has recommended the situation simulation game.
For instance, on the road which on the child leaves class, please get to know each other well the friend (regarding child,kids clothing, may be a stranger, may also be acquaintance) goes forward with the child to greet, attempts with each enticement way to carry off the child. But you in distant place observation. Afterward, you may tell the child, will encounter this kind of situation next time, should do the correct response is anything. Meng moves the example.
The Huang family good recommended with this method finds lets the safety point which the child and the stranger was together. If with the child said solely do not communicate with the stranger, is to child's growth hindrance. Must tell the child, does not want, because opposite party is a stranger, cold face to human. But how to let the child avoid from stranger's injury, may inform him through the simulation situation. For instance in the evening news reported that some child played in a secluded place by the swindler has been carried off, might as well discussed with the child,kids clothes, which places to the child are unsafe, this kind of situation do not exchange with the stranger. In this kind of discussion's process, the child compared to usually earnestly will listen to adult's words.
In addition, the school needs to make the instinct which the crisis deals to respond the training, prepares when the danger arrives accidentally, Huang the family good thought.
The humanity is facing fears, because the surprised mood will continue the time is excessively long loses the instinct the response, forms person's stuporous state. The school violence injures the child event, has many children facing the frightened time is at the stuporous state to receive the injury.
In other words,wholesale children's clothes, these children in usually was really the child who was obedient, teacher has not said or has not been called them to do, they will not go to do. Similarly, facing dangerous time, will not have the instruction they not to have the response.
The school may introduce the game to educate, lets the child study crisis's effective dealing with ability in the game, for instance escapes the direction, the way, requests reinforcements object and method. Initiative protects oneself consciousness to be possible to come in the usual training.

Avoids in the education the forbidden fruit effect
Regarding the young child, many things will always be pasted on by the guardian forbid to inquire that will forbid to move, will forbid the label which will know.
But all prohibitions, can because of child's curiosity and guardian's temporary negligence, but becomes the dangerous the possibility.
Because in the kitchen has the electricity, the knife and fork, the hot water, enables the kitchen to become the child forbidden area, this wise - - more is obviously forbids, the child more is curious. One day, his/she will take advantage you will not pay attention run manipulate.
The best solution, is when you prepare food, you call his/her the kitchen,（Related Articlesbaby doll lyrics Buys the hand made After Chinese shoes clo）, does while tells him/her, this is a knife, if you are not careful, very easy to cut down the hand, this is a fire, ifMeng Qian said.
This is with has dangerous possible thing being together, with person's being together, is also so.
Liaoning sexually violates in child's case, a little girl after being unbearable teacher beats tells the guardian, before had not said to the guardian, is because has thought teacher such does is also attends class. Now tells the guardian, is because teacher uses the book to hit my head daily, pinches the cheeks, pinches the leg, but also uses the stick to hold.
Obviously, the nature is this home education forbidden area, this is also the perpetrator prevails one of so long-time reasons.
Certainly must enable the child to distinguish anything is the misinformation. Huang the family emphasized good. The forbidden area are less, the lie are less, the child can protect oneself the possibility is bigger.
The acquaintance is the child most undefended space, if the guardian must guard against the occurrence which the acquaintance injures, some good means that where are usually the guardian need to foster itself to go to or to do anything, how long goes to the custom which explains with the child. For instance, where does mother tell the child to go to take any thing, several spots come back, waits for and so on information in where, at this time another acquaintance comes to want to carry off the child, then his information whether with mother the information match case, child's defense heart.
Even if regarding television news in injury child event, also does not need to avoid desirably, deals with child's question, even is panic, the best solution, still tells him/her, how is that a matter, if you have encountered this kind of situation, how you should manage can protect itself good.
The greatest degree informs + greatest degree showing loving concern
A while ago, Guangzhou psychology consultation Shi Yudong the splendor received some guardians to seek help the telephone: In the Shunde Experiment Elementary school passes on noisily: Assistant director massacred the wife and has dismembered, but his sweetheart was this school English teacher. Relate usually the good children with principal and teacher, thinks suddenly is very panic, has the child to raise must change the school.
Has violence's child regarding the school, must give the psychological support promptly. Otherwise very easy to cause child's security sense to be insufficient, in the later life, easy not to believe the human. After having violence's several days, even in longer period of time, should better accompany on the child by the parents to leave class every day. Evening must observe child's sleep situation, and communicates with the child, inquires into his/her innermost feelings idea. May also make the roll play game to inform the child, has the parents to give the support frequently in the side. Yu Donghui suggests.
For instance may at home play the rabbit and timber wolf's game with the child, tells the child in the game, when meets the danger, may with rabbit mother, rabbit daddy, rabbit teacher, rabbit police seek help, the small rabbit forever is not a person is facing the danger. May also they easiest see in the child book bag the place (for instance in pencil case) puts father and mother's picture, lets the child feel the parents momentarily in the side, provide the support to them.
US after 9 , 11 events, the kindergarten provides the security sense to the child the way to be also worth using for reference:
Gives the child to hug frequently, smile or bodily contact and so on, to child definite security sense, and determined that oneself are is shown loving concern; Let the child understand that because on the first work and rest each link, reduces them to be unable to know in advance produces fear; Discusses with the children possibly causes the disaster which the child is afraid and so on.
The greatest degree informs + the greatest degree to show loving concern = the child most mild degree panic.

Origin: South weekly (Guangzhou)