7 year-old small armed forces (alias) suddenly was recently wealthy, not only how not to want the spending money to the mother,cool kids clothes, moreover the day also crosses very moistens, buy between-meal snack for oneself 0.1 to press frequently, originally the small armed forces started business - - to help schoolmate to do one's assignment, each time collected fees one Yuan.
Everything thinks only of making money, has the possibility to fail to study. Yesterday, his mother Song Shiying said worriedly to reporter.
The accident discovered that the son is very rich
Song Shiying the family lives in Yuzhong District Chialing new path 65.
Recently she discovered that the son is a little strange: Before will ask her when the weekend to take 35 Yuan spending money, might these two weeks not want recently, but she weekend worked overtime, also forgot the pocket money matter. But, several she discovered that the son puts out simply the surface or the candy cane from the book bag.
The small armed forces are doing one's assignment
At that time thought that was his father has given him secretly the spending money. Song Shiying said that the day before yesterday and the husband chatted this matter, was called him little to draw cash for the child, the husband actually said that the spending money was you are giving, I ever have not given.
Listened to the husband saying that Song Shiying worried: Has the son done the matter which does things stealthily?
When the small armed forces are on vacation from school, Song Shiying presses the spending money the matter. Son's reply lets her be surprised - - helps schoolmate to do one's assignment,organic baby blanket, does one time, they give me one Yuan. The small armed forces said that but also very proud.
Only the gang plays good schoolmate to do
Small armed forces 7 years old, read the elementary school first grade this year, usually is very obedient, class leader. Song Shiying said that did not understand the son does turn this how suddenly.
It is not I wants, is schoolmate gives on own initiative. The small armed forces said that father and mother come from the countryside, the family condition are relatively bad, in city Schoolmate Chang Neng puts out more than ten Yuan spending money. He Xiaoyu (alias) is he plays best schoolmate, the family condition is good. Once, He Xiaoyu does not want to do one's assignment, please the small armed forces help him to do, the small armed forces thought that two people play well, complied. Next day, He Xiaoyu one Yuan thanks him on own initiative for him.
Afterward, other schoolmates knew that the small armed forces may help to write the work, is also willing to invest. I am only willing to help to play good schoolmate. The small armed forces said that regarding not ripe schoolmate, he rejected.
These two weeks, look for the small armed forces to write the work to have 2-3 people, his one week can look eight to ten Yuan.
Mother said that studies is to give change get money
Why helps schoolmate to do one's assignment must receive money?
Mother said that studies well, in the future will look for the good money. The small armed forces said that usually mother also frequently works as his surface is doing accounts, eats meal, goes to school, buys the toy, bought clothes to spend the how much money.
The visible beggar, Song Shiying said to the son that will study not studiously, later looks like him to be the same, cannot find the money, roamed about the street corner, licked the tray. Song Shiying also son's result and the reward suspension hook, tests 100 points to reward 2 Yuan, passes an examination 95 points to reward 1 Yuan, if the score on 90 points, the spending money has not buckled 1 Yuan.
Schoolmate for money time, I at that time did not want to take. The small armed forces said that may think mother said studying to look for the good money, I thought that mother certainly will praise me, took.
Now mother worried very much
Had not thought that the action unintentionally will have such influence to the child. Song Shiying said that she and the husband native place in Fuling, she goes to work in a supermarket, the husband in has the odd-job, the income only then more than 2000 Yuan, the economy is very every month intense, is usually economical, in family's each disbursement is considered as clearly. Thought that present's life all has eaten not cultural owing, specially hoped that the son studied well, has the original story to find the work in the city. Therefore, educates son commonly used to draw the analogy, encourages with the money.
Now, the son small age studies is making money, Song Shiying actually happy does not get up. Such was eager for quick success and immediate gain, grows up had the possibility to step onto the wrong road for the money, even crime. Song Shiying worried very much.
Expert view
To study understanding too utility
The Chongqing University psychologically healthy education and consultation center director the king is vast
The guardian to the study understanding too utility, entered the erroneous zone. Student in school study, not only studies the specialized knowledge, but also studies the personhood. The guardian stressed constantly learns the specialized knowledge, the knowledge quantification, has neglected to the child moral behavior education, such educational mode is very easy to let the child be eager for quick success and immediate gain, lets the child weigh between the person and person's relations with the money. The child will lose in slowly the human nature the fine thing, if the sympathy, will pity the heart, sense of compassion.
Gives change get money is not the ultimate objective
The Central China Normal university preschool education specialized graduate student, the incumbent Chongqing gold treasure teaches the central Chief Operation Officer scenery airplane early
Present's guardian not only pays great attention to raise child's intelligence quotient, discusses a request, must pay great attention to raise child's wealth business. Song Shiying procedure not wrong, but has the improper place. Child through work, may also obtain the reward, but not necessarily is the money, then, lets the child understand, makes the effort is to complete own ideal, lets itself joyful. In this process, trains the child to the money concept,green baby gift baskets, knows the money to be hard-won, but also knew that gives change get money completes own desire.
I had the words to say
East the Yuzhong District solution three small language teachers Hu is joyful
The child may have the money consciousness, moreover such consciousness has not harmed others' benefit. The small armed forces help others to do one's assignment, obtain the reward, in this process, he has eliminated the right which other schoolmates study, has caused the damage to others.
Yuzhong District Guangxi garden community Yuan Hongmei
In order to look for the good money to study, has made a mistake the study direction. The work manifests the value one way, if is completely to make money to study, the child in the study did not realize that the seeking knowledge joy, the life possibly is the flaw.
Triumphant road equipment Limited company Chen Chuan
Actually does not have such seriously. When I go to the elementary school, also helps schoolmate to do one's assignment, they also give me Qian Huo to ask me to eat the thing. Now my 27 years old, I have not turned that kind of person who all think only of making money, the personal connection am also good.
Reporter investigates
Does business with schoolmate not rarely
Now the student and are schoolmate do business many? Yesterday, reporter carried on the investigation in the mortal concern group to 40 net friends, the including 32 net friends indicated that had not thought the small student association made schoolmate's business .6 expressions to hear, 2 expressed that their child have experienced such matter.
Work ringer: In the baidu summer vacation the work, winter vacation the work,（Related Articleschildren's clothes [attainment]czfeddy blog Analyzes domestic four big strong te）, the card which some over a hundred generations do one's assignment, their paid help elementary and middle school students do one's assignment, call self the work ringer. These ringer some are the association combat, the member three to eight people, the division of labor is clear. They mostly are in the school university student, in January can make 1500 Yuan.
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